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It’s one of those words with which most people are familiar, but have vastly differing opinions of what it means. It summons visions of men women with small tokens of affection and asking their hand in marriage on bended knee.
For social scientists, studies of courtship usually look at the process of “mate selection.” (Social scientists, among whom I number myself from time to time, will never be accused of being romantics.) For the purpose of this article the , prior to the early 20th century, courtship involved one man and one woman spending intentional time together to get to know each other with the expressed purpose of evaluating the other as a potential husband or wife.
The man and the woman usually were members of the same community, and the courting usually was done in the woman’s home in the presence (and under the watchful eye) of her family, most often Mom and brothers.
But, if there is dating before college then it is usually kept as a secret from parents.And unsurprisingly, many families don’t approve dating before college because they see it as a distraction from student responsibilities.In fact, relationships are sometimes even prohibited by teachers or school principals in China, who need to make sure that their students stay on track.What are the differences between dating an American person versus a Chinese person?Of course, every individual relationship is different.