Pros and cons of internet dating
Can switch from intelligently discussing rocket science to reiki in seconds.Knows the secrets of life, the Universe and everything (probably).Able to hold a long, meaningful conversation on pretty much any topic with pretty much any person (sparing you a lot of insufferable dinner party chit chat).Deep oracle of wisdom, but also acts like a child who views the world as one giant amusement park.Cons of Dating an INFJ: A lot of unresolved existential dread.Might take a thousand years to think through an issue, then unexpectedly hit you with a master’s thesis on what’s wrong.Is unexpectedly witty, adventurous, committed and paradoxical in the most enticing way. To hold their attention, you must be more fun than whatever outrageously fun thing they’re currently doing.
The grocery store has a wall of them, and I really have no idea how to tell if I’m going to like a random one. People don’t write anything interesting, their photos are terrible and they don’t understand how to communicate. The solution: Not much you can do here besides suggesting some helpful tips to them, and they may freak out at you. They can often help you filter, block and report unsolicited/ egregious behavior.
Cons of Dating an INTJ: Not as cuddly as one would hope.
Resting face kind of looks like they’re planning to kill you (don’t take it personally).
Cries whenever they see a picture of two animals hugging. Talking to them for five minutes is like taking a drug that makes you see everything differently and experience reality in a fun new way. and fail to communicate their existence to the outside world (including you). Has eight million solutions to your problem before you even finish explaining it.
Unlikely to notice you’re upset until you have attached a large blimp to their house reading, “I’m upset! Maps out an exciting new life course every six months, making it hard for the relationship to grow stagnant.