Dealing dating older man
I don’t have to tell you that the only people who get to decide whether you’re enjoying each other as people are you and your dinner companion.Given the opportunity, your friends and strangers will judge you for being out with somebody who is too fat, too thin, to short, too Asian, too a stripper, whatever.One, because people who give a fuck about money are awful, and because I’ve met plenty of old, old dudes who are still doing the Somerset Maugham-y cheerful hobo routine. I like the Civil War, documentaries, and talking about whiskey as though it were a zaftig prostitute, so old guys and I get along.The only problem I’ve had with dating outside of my age range is when the other person has been too aware of it.Women who feel otherwise are the reason we get paid 89 cents to their dollar.
I know many brilliant, mature people who aren’t old enough to rent a car.
Some old people are hot, some young people are not. I don’t like to think about kids or how old someone will be when I’m 35, because I try not to fixate on a guy’s mortality until after he’s met my parents.
Besides, age has nothing to do with lifespan, and we could all get hit by a bus tomorrow, like those poor boys from O-Town. That is the opposite of what picking a person should be like.
But if you’re not into someone because of the arbitrary time in which their parents created them—well, more tasty imperfect flesh for the rest of us.
Admittedly, I prefer older guys, only because they tend to be fully fused, like a human skull.